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CARLOS CALLENDER
Born: Feb 22, 1971
Date of Passing: Feb 17, 2012
Send Flowers to the Family Offer Condolences or MemoryCARLOS CALLENDER February 22, 1971 - February 17, 2012 Peacefully on February 17, 2012 at 6:10 in the morning at St. Boniface Hospital, Carlos went to be with the Lord. He leaves to mourn his loving wife Donna, of 12 years, his children Michaela (six), Judah (15 months), Elijah (16), Josiah (15), and stepdaughter Donalee (20); brother Gurad (Coli), sisters Paula, Kim, Antonia (Jordan), Maurice (Kelly); mother Heather Gittens (Rupert), father Carl Callender and numerous nieces, nephews, extended family from Calgary, Barbados, United States, England and also countless friends. Carlos was born in Winnipeg and was the fourth of five children. He was an energetic and rambunctious boy who loved to play and have fun. He and his siblings were close, always joking, laughing and playing around. Carlos was also known to be fiercely loyal whether it was defending his siblings from the neighbourhood bullies or holding hands with his sisters, he was always there. During his years growing up, his fondest memories talked about were that of playing basketball at Kildonan East Collegiate where he developed fast and life long friendships. Carlos would sometimes play street basketball where he was dubbed the Cookie Monster because he would arrive on the court munching on a dozen cookies. Just recently, Carlos was finishing up his Counselling certificate at University of Manitoba, specializing in Addictions. He was really proud of this accomplishment and mentioned that helping people with addictions was what he really enjoyed. Throughout his life, Carlos had worked at a variety of jobs but none had really impacted his life more than that of the Salvation Army and Macdonald Youth Centre. He really enjoyed working there because he felt a connection to the people and the great atmosphere. Ever since he gave his life to the Lord, Carlos has been reading, talking, preaching and singing with fervour and gusto about the Lord. He loved to learn and ask questions and always wanted to know more and do more. Carlos loved helping people and was always there when you needed him, whether it was helping and preaching, leading Bible study, teaching Sunday School or just listening to the Word, Carlos was there for you one hundred percent. Even though his life was short it was impactful; making an impact on people whenever he went. He was known for that smile and had a vibrancy about him that made people gravitate towards him. Carlos was a honest, honourable, trustworthy, loving, compassionate man. He was a man of integrity who would always rely on people's words. If you can't believe a man's word, then what can you believe? he would always say. He was also a very patient man and taught his nieces to tie their shoes and zip up their jackets. He would often say, If you need help, ask for it . Carlos truly and deeply loved and cherished his family. He loved all his children deeply and told them that every time he talked with them and when he hugged or tickled them. He loved teaching them things and listening to them. Words can't express how much he loved them and sometimes it would bring him to tears. He loved his wife and loved spending time with her and will truly miss her. He loved his siblings and his dad but his mother had a special place in his heart. She always encouraged him, loved him and tried to help him whenever he asked and was always there for him. He truly and deeply appreciated it. Carlos will be deeply, deeply missed but not forgotten. We will see you again Carlos. Love you. The family would like to extend their gratitude to the nurses and doctors of St. Boniface Hospital (5E and the Palliative Care Unit on the 8th floor) who were kind and accommodating, Pastor Marcia, Pastor Tom, Pastor Simmons, Pastor Tim, Pastor Jim and Pastor Ivor and all the other pastors that came to pray with Carlos. Also like to thank Zion Apostolic Church, Church of God of Prophecy, Wide World of Faith, Elim Chapel Church, Roseau River Church, Macdonald Youth Services, Salvation Army, Finding Freedom, University of Manitoba Counselling Program and The Barbados Association, and all the friends and family who visited Carlos and provided support to the family with prayer, support and unconditional love. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, February 28, 2012 at North Kildonan Mennonite Brethren Church at 1315 Gateway (corner of Gateway and Springfield) at 11:30 a.m. Pastor Tom Campbell of Zion Apostolic Church officiating, reception to follow with a private interment at a later date. In lieu of flowers, the family requests that any donations be made to The Carlos Callender Children's Education Fund at any TD Bank after February 23, 2012. Family and friends may sign a Book of Condolence at www.glenlawn.ca Glen Lawn Funeral Home 982-7550
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Feb 22, 2012
Condolences & Memories (23 entries)
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Hi I'm Judah and I was born in November 22/2010, I'm now 14 turning 15 in 3 or 4 months, I wish you were here dad. - Posted by: Judah () on: Aug 12, 2025
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Hello again. I am now in this period of reflection on life and the significance of your presence and your absence. I am finally at university now! I am very thankful for the teachings you have instilled in me from 0 to 6 as they have come in handy now that I am on my own. I always think you, not only during this month but throughout the year. As soon as I learn to drive, I will drive to a grocery store, buy a deep and delicious cake and go to your plot and eat with you so you can see how big I've grown! I'll be sure to drag Judah and mom with me too. Take care, dad. See you soon :) - Posted by: Michaela (Daughter) on: Feb 22, 2024
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I have come back to this page for a numerous amounts of reasons. One being that I have a lot of homework and studying to do and I don't want to do it and the other being that it's February and I miss him. I am now 17 and months away from graduating high school. The process of grief is harder than I thought and I imagined that I would be at peace but hitting these milestones always reminds me that something is missing. I don't know what the future will bring but I know you're looking out for me dad. I will continue to work hard and make you proud! - Posted by: Michaela (daughter) on: Feb 25, 2023
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Now that I'm older, I understand way more now. I used to think that you were gone for a bit and was going to come back early in the morning and give me a thousand kisses like you always did. But I know for sure that they are no more. I want to have your trustworthiness, patience and humour. And I'm trying to be the best I can be. It's very hard though. I love you and miss you alot. From your now, 12 1/2 year old daughter. - Posted by: Michaela (Daughter ) on: Jun 10, 2018
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Carlos had such a giving spirt, he touched so many people and did such great work for the community. In his short time with us, he had a deep, positive impact on so many lives. Thank you to everyone who supported this great man, let his spirit of kindness and giving be the legacy you carry on. - Posted by: Melanie Murray (Volunteer Mentor Coordinator) on: Aug 30, 2012
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My friend Carlos. I am truly saddened to learn of your passing. I have fond memories growing up together on Aikins street, whether it was playing floor hockey at Margaret Park, football in the field, or just hanging out, you were always very passionate and energetic both about the sport you played and the people you played them with. We learnt some valuable life lessons as kids growing up on Aikins and I'll forever cherish those memories. - Posted by: Colin Tkach (Friend) on: Jul 25, 2012
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I just heard the news. I was saddened to hear of this loss. I met Carlos many years ago through a mutual friend while we were in a church singing group. He was a very warm, kind, & genuine man. Always had something positive to say & was always smiling. My condolences go out to his family. God Bless. - Posted by: Ernesto Griffith (Friend) on: Jun 30, 2012
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I miss my dad I sometimes cry because I sometimes miss him. and he was a good dad. - Posted by: michaela (daughter) on: Jun 02, 2012
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I don't normally read the paper but yesterday (Feb22) waiting at the doctor's office I picked up the paper and was shocked and saddened at the passing of a dear high school friend - Carlos. Just a few weeks ago I was showing my 12 year old son my high school year book and a picture of Carlos catches his eye. Carlos is wearing a tank top and his biceps are flexing. My son says that he is going to have arms like that when he gets older. I told my son about the good times we had in high school and what a great friend Carlos was. Even though Carlos and I lost contact after high school I still clearly remember his jovial nature and of course his permanent smile. My deepest condolences to all of the family and God bless. Buck - Posted by: Buck (Friend) on: Apr 20, 2012
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My dear Carlos. Ever since I met you, you had a vibrancy, an energy and a great smile. You always encouraged and supported me and always wanted the best for me and from me. I will always love you until the day I die. Although I know that you are in heaven, I still listen for your footsteps, the feel of your strong calloused hands and your warm body but I see you in Michaela and Judah and Elijah and Josiah. Michaela says to make sure you read the Bible to Whitney Houston, Michael Jackson and Davy Jones! As I told you before, Carlos, I admire you and respect you. You are one of the few that had great sense of integrity and honour. I am truly blessed in knowing you. As promised, I will protect and care for the children and first and foremost continue to tell them, teach them, pray with them about Jesus. Thank you Carlos. - Posted by: Donna Callender (Wife) on: Mar 08, 2012
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When you would enter a room with Carlos in it, the room would illuminate with his smile. He is a sweet gentle man who loved his family very deeply and was a great provider. My prayers of healing and love are with his wife, family and children. God Bless - Posted by: Terilyn Morrison (Friend of Family) on: Feb 27, 2012
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To June and family. My deepest condolences to you all. for the loss of your dear one. May his soul rest in peace. - Posted by: Hazel Deane (Toronto) (Family friend) on: Feb 25, 2012
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A life lived with great LOVE and RESPECT for his family, friends and God. - Posted by: Tania Gryszczuk (Friend) on: Feb 24, 2012
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It was only for a short time that I had the 'gift' to have met Carlos. Yes his compassion for people was infectious, and contagious as shared above. He looked for opportunity to befriend those he met. Carlos visited our congregation Haverim Mashiach, a few times in his deep love for Our Savior Jesus (Yeshua). He was very interested in discovering the Jewish roots of our Christian Faith, and I enjoyed getting to know him more during our lunches and bible studies. My heart goes out to His Family, His Wife, and children, and I too look forward to the hope of seeing Carlos again, as we are all reunited together, the Body of Christ. I will remember you Carlos, in Christ's Love! You lived 'Emunah' Trust in Action (Faith) - Posted by: Dan (Friend) on: Feb 24, 2012
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Although many years have passed since we all lived on that street, I still see you as that mischievous little boy who along with my son & the rest of the boys in the neighbourhood caused all kinds of ruckus. My sincere condolences to the Callender family. - Posted by: The Edmonds family (Neighbours from Aikins St.) on: Feb 23, 2012
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Greg and I have worked with Carlos through pancake breakfasts and youth nights and there was never a dull moment. Carlos had a way of making people laugh and get crazy right along with him. His laughter was contagious and will ring through our memories in times to come. We will miss you Carlos but we know you are rejoicing with the angels and those who have gone before you. Love and prayers. - Posted by: Greg and Maranetta Simmons (friends) on: Feb 23, 2012
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My family and I first met Carlos at our church's evening service a year or so ago. He was so passionate about his faith and his smile was infectious. His youngest daughter and my daughter became fast friends. My heart goes out to his wife and his babies. I do take solace in knowing he is home with Jesus, but it doesn't make it any easier. We miss you Carlos. See you later <3 - Posted by: Krista gerbrandt (Friend) on: Feb 22, 2012
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On behalf of my family and Breath of Life Church in Portage and Winnipeg, I send our deepest sympathies to Donna and the children. Carlos was a wonderful Christian and friend. His passion for the Word of God was a wonderful connection he and I had together as we would talk Bible so many times. His faith was strong and he was absolutely head-over-heels in love with the Lord Jesus! I thank the Lord I knew Carlos, and that our absence from him will be nothing compared to our eternity together with him in glory. - Posted by: Pastor Mike Blume (Past pastoral relationship with Carlos) on: Feb 22, 2012
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Carlos certainly had a way with people! Everytime Carlos volunteered at the local community centre, kids would flock to him. Over the years, he mentored children and youth in various degrees. He brought energy, acceptance, kindness and an open mind. These were only a few of his many, many qualities & virtues. I will never forget his kind words and support on those tough days. I am honored to have had him as a friend. I, amongst many, was blessed. Our thoughts are with you and the family. - Posted by: Sindy (Friend) on: Feb 22, 2012
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Paula, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this most difficult time. I care. - Posted by: Lynne Anderson (Friend) on: Feb 22, 2012
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I will never forget his great laugh and jokes. Many at my expense, you will truly be missed buddy. - Posted by: David Suttorp (Co -Worker) on: Feb 22, 2012
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Carlos, I will always remember you, your beautiful smile and your honest heart. I will forever treasure your kindness, generosity and wisdom. You had a very special way of making me feel better after talking with you about whatever was bothering me at the time. You truly were an angel on earth, now go and spread your angel wings up in heaven. God bless your beautiful family and yourself my kind friend. - Posted by: Karen Plaza (friend) on: Feb 22, 2012
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Carlos and I used to lead youth group together at Wide World of Faith. We also worked many, many rummage sales. Carlos made every event memorable. He was such a nut, with a fantastic sense of humor. He always encouraged everyone he knew. I once heard him witness to a young man at a youth rally we attended. You could just feel God's annointing pouring out of him. God used Carlos in so many ways. I'm proud to say he was my friend and feel my life was greatly blessed because he was in it. I loved him like a brother and I will deeply miss his friendship and his laugh. But I know he is dancing with the angels now with a great big smile on his face! - Posted by: Gayle McPherson (Friend) on: Feb 22, 2012
