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JOSEPH HENRY HAYWOOD
Born: Jul 24, 1933
Date of Passing: Jun 08, 2012
Send Flowers to the Family Offer Condolences or MemoryJOSEPH HENRY HAYWOOD July 24, 1933 - June 8, 2012 With his family by his side, Joe passed away peacefully on June 8, 2012, in Grande Prairie, Alberta. He was predeceased by his wife Janet, stepson Grant Morsette, parents John and Edith Haywood, brothers Jack and Bobby Haywood. He leaves behind to cherish his memories daughters Susan (Rene), Kathy (Bruce), Cindy (Dennis). Brother Pat (Bunnie) Haywood, sister Edith (William) Kerelluke, grandchildren Michelle, Lisa, Cheryl, Kerri, Michael, Kyle and Evan, great-grandchildren, Megan, Cameron, Jayden, Bella and Zoey. Joe was born July 24, 1933, in St. Boniface, Manitoba. During his younger years he was raised on Consol Avenue in Elmwood. In 1945, the family moved to St. Boniface, where he worked as a teenager in the union stock yards. In 1948, he joined the reserve army signal corps., fought the Winnipeg flood of 1950, and then joined the regular force in May 1951. He went on to serve 18 years with the Royal Canadian Signals Corps as a lineman. He worked overseas in North West Europe (Germany), returning to Canada to go up into the North West Territories and Yukon, where he worked on the radio systems. His postings in Canada were in Winnipeg, Churchill, Edmonton, Vancouver, and Kingston. In 1963 he was sent to Africa (the Belgian Congo) for seven months. He was decorated with a commendation from his commanding officer for his actions while in the Congo. Joe suffered immensely from Post Trauma Stress Syndrome upon his return home from Africa. He fought the government for many years to have P.T.S.D. recognized as there was no such treatment for returning soldiers at that time. He also wrote a book called Mr. God I am Sorry about alcoholism and P.T.S.D. and how one disease leads into another. He lectured at Canadian Army bases as well as bases in the USA. He was well known to speak about the plight of all servicemen everywhere suffering P.T.S.D. caused by serving in war torn conflicts. In 2003, Joe was awarded The Minister of Veterans Affairs Commendation for all his work in getting P.T.S.D. recognized. Joe worked at the chemical and Alcohol treatment centre at Health Sciences Centre for seven years counseling Alcoholics. He held an able Toastmasters Degree, and was a valued member of Alcoholics Anonymous, speaking in many places in Canada and the USA. He is also a co-founder of Addictions Recovery Incorporated, two halfway houses for Alcoholic and Drug addiction here in Winnipeg. He also held memberships in many rodeo and horse associations and was an accomplished rider and horse trainer. In Manitoba alone he won 24 highpoint championships and many individual awards. Joe also worked in Motion Pictures as a Horse Wrangler and stunt man. He traveled many summers with World Chuckwagon Champion Kelly Sutherland and also worked as an outrider judge for the W.P.C.A. He held memberships in the following: Royal Canadian Legion Branch 43, The Signals Association of Canada, Honorary member of The Korean Veterans Association of Canada, Sgt. Tommy Prince MM Memorial Unit 76 Winnipeg, and The Canadian Association. Veterans, United Nations Peacekeepers. His Military Medals and Decorations were: Special Service Medal North West Europe NATO, Canadian Peacekeeping Service Medal, United Nations Medal Congo, Canadian Decoration The Nobel Peace Prize Medal U.N., United Nations 5th Commemorative Medal, The Defense of NATO Medal and Frame The Allied Combat Volunteer Medal. We would like to extend a special thanks to the staff at ICU Queen Elizabeth ll hospital, Grande Prairie, Alberta, as well as to the Sutherland family during this time of grief. Dad will always be lovingly remembered by many and cherished in our hearts forever. In keeping with Joe's wishes a funeral service celebrating his life will be held on Thursday, June 14, 2012, at 1:00 p.m. in the Norwood Legion, 134 Marion Street, interment will follow in the Military Section in Brookside Cemetery. The Coutu family in care of arrangements: E.J. COUTU CO. FUNERAL DIRECTORS 680 Archibald Street 253-5086 ejcoutu.com
As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jun 13, 2012
Condolences & Memories (9 entries)
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God's helper helping people in prison help plant the seed of life thanks - Posted by: garry zeron (friend of bill w) on: Jun 18, 2013
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To Edie, Pat and families, Please accept our sincere condolences for the passing of "Uncle Joe" as I knew him growing up. He and mom and dad were very good friends. My husband Peter & I had the rare pleasure of having him and Janet over for dinner a few years back when he was staying with the Sutherlands at stampede time. It was so nice for him to see my twins again and reminisce about the old days and the stuff he and dad would get into when they were young. Made me proud to see him again. He was an inspiration to many! Sending much love from Barbara xx - Posted by: Barbara Horder (Wishnowski) (Friend) on: Jul 04, 2012
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My name is Kimberly Barker MacFarlane. Joseph Haywood forever changed my life on December 13, 1967. To his family: I am truly sorry for your loss. Joseph eventually taught me that we don't have to be a victim of our circumstances and that forgiveness frees your soul. My Father, Wayne Barker, provided me and my brother, James with a fantastic life after the tragic loss of our Mother, Angie. It wasn't easy for my Dad to suddenly be a widower at 23 with two young children! My Dad is the most wonderful, strong human being that I have ever known and he has worked so hard to carry the pain and burden for my brother and I and to give us the most normal life he could. He has worked tirelessly for us and I love him for that selflessness. That being said, it was not an easy emotional ride through my childhood. I grew up with huge abandonment issues and it took a lifetime of therapy and self awareness to come to terms with who I am. I am blessed that I have always had a strong sense of self and determination that is truly the core of who I am. I like to think that that strength comes from the Mother that I only know from 45 year of memories, news articles and stories from those who were in St. Boniface at that time. Seventeen years ago, I met my husband, Steve. With his support, I had the courage able to look up Joseph.....and I called him. We had a tearful chat and during that conversation, he shared with me that he always kept his number public in case my brother or I ever wanted to get in touch with him. Though I don't remember all of that conversation, I know that we both walked away from it with a lightness in our hearts. That is when I learned the power of forgiveness and that we are not here to judge one another, that is God's job. - Posted by: Kimberly Barker MacFarlane () on: Jun 27, 2012
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When I was a teenage girl, very impressionable, I met Joe through Joe Laporte. In my young eyes, he was the best cowboy and had the best horse. I was so proud the day I was in a parade on one of Joe Laporte's horses and beside me was THE Joe Haywood riding Mannix!! Someone gave me a picture of that moment - was I proud - I still have it after all these years. He was quite the character and hadn't changed much when we had the privilege of re-meeting him a few years ago when he boarded Charger at our farm for a couple of years. The world will be a different place without him. He will be missed. - Posted by: Susan Brand (Friend) on: Jun 14, 2012
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I have known Joe since he moved into the neighbourhood several years ago. He was a very kind individual and always willing to lend a helping hand. Just a great person and we will miss him around the neighbourhood. - Posted by: Ollie Schroeder (Neighbour) on: Jun 14, 2012
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I met Joe in 1979 while living in Winnipeg. He helped me through my battle with P.T.S.D. and alcoholism with an "in-your-face" approach that I will never forget. Our friendship grew as I lived for a short time with Joe, Jan and Jan's mother Elsie on his ranch in Bird's Hill. Watching Joe work with his award-winning horse Mannix, I realized this man was a real wrangler. After my wife Carol and I returned to California, he visited several times while promoting his book and visiting Air Force bases around California. His message to the troops was focused on alcoholism and P.T.S.D. and his message was well received. Joe was a good man and friend, and we will miss him. To the family, we can only say we share your loss. Daryl & Carol Bowman Woody, Ca. - Posted by: DARYL BOWMAN (FRIEND) on: Jun 13, 2012
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Joe was a family friend and a great guy. Would see him on weekends at horse shows running barrels on his black horse having a great time and cheering everyone on. The last time I saw him was a few years back and got talking about the old days at the rodeo in Beausejour. Will miss you Joe and my thoughts are with your family. You can ride forever now. - Posted by: Regan Ingeberg (Friend) on: Jun 13, 2012
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I listen to all the stories being told about my grandfather Joe. Growing up, grandpa was the horse guy. We looked forward to our trips out to the farm to ride Mannix. I remember my first time that grandpa let me ride in the arena without him leading the horse. I thought I was so grown up at 7 or 8 years old. Mannix took me to the far end of the arena and would not move no matter how much I pulled those reins. But, oh boy, he knew who the boss was, and when he heard those boots stomping across the mud, he quickly continued on his journey around the arena. As I got older, I can remember my friends who travelled the rodeo circuits talk about the old guy in a red shirt! I used to laugh and say, yup, that old guy is my grandpa, and I bet he whooped your butt in barrel racing! Sure enough, he had done just that! I know he is now in a happier place, with Janet by his side, but he will forever be missed and remembered by all his grandchildren & great-grandchildren. - Posted by: Michelle Lightfoot (Granddaughter ) on: Jun 13, 2012
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I worked with Joe back in the days when I managed the "Golden Nugget" and "Longhorns Saloon" in Winnipeg. He was a great person and all the staff and customers loved him. We all feel your loss. Carmina Hiebert - Posted by: Carmina Hiebert () on: Jun 13, 2012