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SEAN MCELMOYLE

Date of Passing: Jul 14, 2013

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SEAN MCELMOYLE It is with heavy hearts we announce the sudden passing of Sean (Mac) McElmoyle on July 14, 2013 at the age of 39. Throughout his brief life he was a loving husband, father, son, brother, grandson, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend. He will be deeply missed by his wife Sheila (Hamm) and his two boys David and Jackson; his parents David and Paulette, his sisters Heather Christensen (Olly (Erik, Soren, Lanaya, Raina)), Kathy Brochu (Lyle (Morgan-Lee, Alexis)), in-laws Tex and Sally Hamm, sisters-in-law Bonnie Bruce (Gene) and Cyndi Hamm, his aunt Laurie and uncle Allan, cousins Mike (Rob) and Jim, many friends and, of course, his brothers'. He will be especially missed by his beloved Amma, Margaret. Sean was born in Winnipeg. He grew up in St. James and graduated in 1992 from Sturgeon Creek Collegiate with a dual diploma (academic and vocational). He was known for his unique sense of humour and his amazing ability to engage in a debate on any topic. Sean started playing hockey when he was eight years old. He loved the game and was a loyal Philadelphia Flyers fan even when his friends (be they Blackhawks or Bruins fans) would taunt him when they were having a bad season, which was almost always. He also enjoyed the game of football. Although he never played, he was an avid fan of the Chicago Bears even though they hadn't won a Super Bowl since 1985. But that's who Sean was. He was loyal - and once he had your back, he always had your back, good times or bad - no matter what. Sean loved fishing. He grew up fishing with his dad and was always in search of the biggest channel catfish he could find. He took his boys out every chance he got; but more often than not, ended up getting ticked off because they would always catch more fish than he did. Although he wasn't the best golfer, he loved the game and had taken his boys from time to time. One of his most memorable games was in Cuba against the backdrop of the Caribbean Sea while smoking cigars with his brother-in-law Gene. Thanks to his sister Kathy, Sean discovered his love for travelling south. Had she not decided to get married in Jamaica, he might not have realized how much he loved it. He and Sheila and the boys travelled to many places, sometimes it was Jamaica or Cuba for some fun in the sun, or Cedar Point or Valley Fair in search for the biggest roller coaster or, just recently, Las Vegas for a four-day non-stop adventure. He started working at the Health Sciences Centre Laundry in 1990 at the age of 16 where he met the love of his life, Sheila. He was later employed by Arnes Welding until he was accepted into the Boilermakers Local Union 555 in 1995. Over the last 18 years he worked his way up from Apprentice to General Foreman. He loved being a Boilermaker and was extremely proud to be part of the Brotherhood. Anybody who knew Sean, might say he wasn't the easiest person to work with but, regardless, they all had the utmost respect for him and what he stood for. He traveled all the way from British Columbia to New Brunswick doing what he loved most. He loved the guys he worked with and always came home with stories to share. Although Sean worked out of town most of the time, when he was home, one of his favourite things to do was to have people over and sit around the kitchen table, play cards, have drinks and update us on the latest gossip from the jobsite. And there was always a story to tell. Although they were only friends for the first four years of their relationship, Sean was ever so patient (hard to believe right?!?) and after four years and a six-hour-long phone call he finally got up the nerve to ask her out. From that moment on, they both knew that they had found their soul mate. They were engaged two years later and married on September 27, 1997. They were blessed with the birth of their first son David on September 20, 1998 and once again on May 20, 2001 when Jackson arrived. Their family was now complete. The three of them meant the world to him and there was nothing he loved more than spending time with them every chance he got. He was a loving and devoted husband and father who can never be replaced and will be forever in their hearts. Sheila would like to thank her wonderful family, amazing friends and especially her sister Bonnie for their amazing love, strength and support. And a special thank you to Cal Morris for being there in a way no one else could. The family would also like to thank E. J. Coutu & Co for their tremendous help during this difficult time. In lieu of flowers, if friends so desire, donations in memory of Sean may be made to the David and Jackson McElmoyle Trust Fund care of CIBC. In keeping with Sean's wishes, cremation has taken place and a celebration of his life will be held on Wednesday, July 24, 2013 at 1:00 p.m. in Franco-Manitoban Cultural Centre, Jean-Paul-Aubry Hall, 340 Provencher Boulevard. The Coutu Family in care of arrangements: E.J. COUTU & CO. FUNERAL DIRECTORS 680 Archibald Street 204-253-5086 ejcoutu.com

As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Jul 20, 2013

Condolences & Memories (29 entries)

  • Sheila, David and Jackson....So very sorry to hear of Sean's passing. Even though I only met Sean and Sheila a few times at Polo Park Lanes, I got to know the boys since I was a YBC coach. May your memories help you through this most difficult time. - Posted by: Anne Linklater (Friend/YBC coach) on: Sep 14, 2013

  • I am so so saddened with the news of your loss, and I hope you find strength at this time..my heartfelt condolences to you and the Boys, ((hugs)) - Posted by: Anne Sirkkunen (Thunder Bay, friend) on: Jul 27, 2013

  • I never knew your husband sheila however all i heard was amazing things about him. I am at loss for words, HUGE HUGS GIRL, and if you need anything, I know we arent as close as we once were however we never fought and was looking forwards to some bevies :) Miss ya cus, Just another life curve. He will be with you forever! - Posted by: Lisa Hamm (Cousin) on: Jul 26, 2013

  • Although I have not personally met Sally's Family, I feel I know you all thru the many stories Sally and I have shared about our Families. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. To Sheila and Boys - words cannot express what you are feeling, but remember Sean/Dad will be in your hearts with all those wonderful memories you created as a Family. Take care. - Posted by: Cyndy (friend / co-worker of Sally) on: Jul 24, 2013

  • Sheila, David and Jackson, From our family to you, your boys and both yours snd David's families, we extend our deepest condolences. We are so shocked and saddened for you all. We know your family will comfort and care for you and the boys in such a terrible time. Please know you wll be thought of in the tough times ahead. Much love and sympathy Sheila, Cheryl, Jamie, Emma and Aaron xo - Posted by: Cheryl (Janzen) Lindsay (Family friend) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • I am so sorry to hear of your loss....I am in absolute shock...let me know if there is anything I can do...My thoughts and prayers are with you, David & Jackson... - Posted by: Charlene Linklater (close friend ) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • Our thoughts and prayers with you and yoyr boys Sheila. Well wishes to his family. - Posted by: charlene skjerven (friend) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • Shocked to hear about your husband's passing. My thoughts are with you. So sorry Sheila. - Posted by: Susan Colpitts (Acquaintance) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • Sheila, David and Jackson, We are shocked and saddened to hear of the passing of Sean. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones during this difficult time. Unfortunately, we will be unable to attend the celebration of Sean's life, but know that we are there in spirit and in love. Our hearts ache for you. - Posted by: Norm & Ev Janzen (firends) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • So sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this difficult time. I don't know the author of this quote but I would like to share it with you: "I like to believe that when we lose someone close to us, they still live through us and give us strength. The time we have spent with those we've lost makes them part of us." - Posted by: Ramona Fernandes (co-worker) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • It is with shock & complete sadness that I am reading this. Sheila, I cannot express enough how sorry I am for you & your family. I will keep you in my thoughts & prayers. I know you will find yourself surrounded by loved ones through this difficult time. - Posted by: Karen Richards (Friend ) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • My deepest condolences to Sheila, David and Jackson. I was in absolute shock to hear of your loss. Sean was a great guy, my thoughts and prayers go out to the family. Celebrate all the great things Sean did with pride. - Posted by: Richard Yanecki (Friend) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • God's strength to you all as you go through the hardest time of your lives. My deepest condolences and prayers are with you all. - Posted by: Sylvia Albert (Friend of the family) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • Dearest Sheila, please know that all your friends are thinking about you and your boys during this very difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you all. - Posted by: Claudine Sikora () on: Jul 23, 2013

  • Oh I was so shocked to read this this morning. I can't imagine what you and the boys are going through. I know the girls and I would be lost. Big hugs and prayers going out to you and your family. Susan - Posted by: Susan Golembleski (friends) on: Jul 23, 2013

  • We were all saddened and shocked to learn of Sean's passing. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and yours. Flyers Fanatics Forever. - Posted by: The Mancusi Family (co-worker) on: Jul 22, 2013

  • I'm shocked and saddened to hear of Sean's untimely passing. My heart goes out to you and your family Sheila. - Posted by: Delaney Ross Burtnack (Friend) on: Jul 22, 2013

  • We were at their wedding we shared the same anniversery. It is with deep sorry For the family, will be praying for your whole family. For we know he will be greatly missed. It was nice to read all the things that he did with his family. - Posted by: Henry & Joyce Dueck (Friend of Tex 7 Sally) on: Jul 22, 2013

  • Our deepest condolences go out to Sheila, Jackson, David and all Sean's family and friends. You will all be in our prayers. - Posted by: Diane Johnson (and Family) () on: Jul 21, 2013

  • You are all in my thoughts and prayers - and all of us, Mom (Aunt Katie) and my family and Lawrence's family has you in our thoughts and prayers. Much Love, Sandra - Posted by: Sandra Hamm Bowles (Cousin to Tex) on: Jul 21, 2013

  • Our deepest sympathies to Sheila, David and Jackson and their families. Sean was a great person and will be dearly missed. You are in our thoughts and prayers. - Posted by: Ray&Janet (Friends of the Family) on: Jul 20, 2013

  • Sean was a model boilermaker and a great person to be around and work with. He was a dedicated husband, father and tradesman. His skills and abilities were looked up to by all of us. He will be missed by all of his brothers of local 555. Our deepest sympathy goes out to his family and friends and he will be missed dearly. - Posted by: Andrew Levesque (Brother boilermaker local 555) on: Jul 20, 2013

  • May he rest in peace and he will be in our prayers - Posted by: JIM WOJTKIWICZ (friend of mine and my daughter Brenda S urkkunen and her family) on: Jul 20, 2013

  • Our deepest heartfelt sympathies to Sheila and her boys and to their families. Thoughts and prayers go to you all in this sad time. - Posted by: Barbara Boitson (first cousin to Sean's mother-in-law) on: Jul 20, 2013

  • Today I don't mourn the passing of my brother-in-law, but the passing of my friend. I will wear my chicago bears sweater and toast you with a rye and coke:) till will meet again - Posted by: olly (brother in law ) on: Jul 20, 2013

  • Although I don't know you personally, my daughter Georgina has spoke many times of you. You are all in my thoughts since I had heard the tragic news, my heart goes out to all of you. Embrace and hugs to you all. Georgina's Mom - Posted by: Gina (you are my daughter Georgina's "cake Lady") on: Jul 20, 2013

  • He was a good guy and will be missed - Posted by: Mike burrows (Co-worker boilermakers 555 ) on: Jul 20, 2013

  • I remember Sean from our teenage years....mostly as Kathy's big protective brother. He was a wonderful person then and I'm sure even more so as life went on. Please find comfort and peace knowing he's in a wonderful place and you all, will see him again one day. Sending all my love your way - Posted by: Julie Martens (Friend if Sister Kathy) on: Jul 20, 2013

  • I will pray for you and your family. I believe God will take care of all your needs. Just remember your biggest source of strength will be your family and close friends. Stay strong. - Posted by: christine newman (Coworker) on: Jul 20, 2013

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