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KURT DUNCAN NEAL Struggling with the loss of our son ... Kurt-O. Sometimes it's every second, minute, hour, daily! Eight long years or is it eight short years. Eight years without you is unacceptable. Kurt, this year has be particularly difficult. Hard to understand. Hard to deal with. As time goes on we learn to suffer internally, as it seems to be the acceptable way. It's unbelievable that life goes on WITHOUT YOU? Talking to your son through written word or prayer is SO SAD. Kurt we know if you were here with us you would be our little talker or caller as you always were. Memories still surface, a song, smell, person, place or a quiet moment or just breathing there you are. But just a memory. Kurt you will always be our 21 year old child. You will never get a wrinkle, gain a pound (always a Buck sixty five) sprout a grey hair, be a husband, daddy, be 29. For that we continue to ache. We will see you one day. God and you are together now. Kurt you had Big Plans for your future. We/you never knew they would be in Heaven. We are selfish ... We want you with US. We will end by saying you are a Uncle Kurt. Charlotte, your precious niece, that sounds `Amazing', knows her Uncle Kurt, only through Grampsy and Grammy's eyes. What we share with her. Kurt, we love you the Whole World, We love you this much ... Dad and Mom "No Celebration this year, We just CAN'T CELEBRATE!"

As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Aug 24, 2013

Condolences & Memories (8 entries)

  • Dennis and Cindy I cannot imagine what you go through but I have a son so I can understand how difficult it is to put one foot in front of the other each day as you deal with the overwhelming loss. You show tremendous strength and sadly that is our only choice when we are left behind to grieve. Enjoy the memories and keep Kurt alive through stories shared with all those that loved him and you and all of those who would have loved him too. Wish I were there to give you a hug. - Posted by: Dina (Friend) on: Aug 27, 2013

  • Cindy and Dennis So beautifully written. Thinking of you. The hurt never goes away but treasure the Memories. Take care! - Posted by: Pat V (friendC) on: Aug 26, 2013

  • I know your hurt. It is so important, to me, to tell the "nieces and nephews" all about their amazing uncles that they will never meet in person but they will know their passions, their ambitions, their heart. Warm thoughts to your family at this difficult time. - Posted by: Della Morley () on: Aug 25, 2013

  • Cindy, This is such a moving memorial to your son Kurt. Please know my heart aches for you and you are in my thoughts. - Posted by: Janis Rost (Golf friend of Cindy) on: Aug 25, 2013

  • I don't know YOU but my heart goes to you. I am a mother, and I also have few friends that lost their sons-God Bless YOU I will pray for YOU and KURT. - Posted by: Roza (someone who cares) on: Aug 24, 2013

  • My thoughts are with you - Treasure the memories, they last forever - Posted by: Rose (Tulip) & Family (Friend) on: Aug 24, 2013

  • I now know what it means to lose a loved one, so sorry. - Posted by: Verona () on: Aug 24, 2013

  • Cindy and Dennis, We are sad to say we did not know Kurt but I am sure you gave him enough love to last into eternity. I am so sorry for your lose. At the same time God gave you a new child to continue to love in this lifetime. Take care and hope to see you soon. Mary and Al - Posted by: Mary and Al (Friend) on: Aug 24, 2013

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