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DIANE KOCH-SCHULTE (HASKER)
Born: Sep 24, 1966
Date of Passing: Dec 13, 2014
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DIANE KOCH-SCHULTE (nee HASKER) September 24, 1966 - December 13, 2014 I have died a peaceful death surrounded by those who loved me. Oh how I wish I could have stayed, but it was not to be. I did not "fight a courageous battle," as some would try to say. I tried everything the oncologists recommended, including amputation, burning and poison. Not even that could keep me here, but I did not "lose the battle." I lived with joy and gratitude in spite of this damn pink cancer that grew inside me, as did my mother Estelle and sister Pamela before they died. My father Bryant was a wonderful man. He modelled kindness to others, even under his own difficult health challenges and I hope I was able to do the same. I was blessed with wonderful parents and a sister who always led the way. I missed them all dearly especially in the past few years. Laughter was always present in our family, even in times of sorrow. The Hasker cackle was well known in certain circles. Nature has always been important to me. Clearwater Lake was the Eden of my life: Jack pines, turquoise water, swimming, reading, cards, puzzles, collecting rocks and being with family. In recent years, the lake at Nopiming Park was a healing and calming influence as I absorbed its beauty with my brother-in-law David and his sons Florian and Jordi. I went canoeing, spent time with "Pam-cakes" and hiked. Margaret's Choir (formerly Spirits Call) helped rejuvenate my love of singing and my appreciation for the wonderful sound a choir can make. I enjoyed the presence of music in my life and the comfort it brought to me. My life was blessed with a childhood of encouragement and imagination on Cabot Crescent in St. Vital. Adventures, competitive swimming and the friendships I made kept me busy and out of trouble for many years. I graduated from Dakota Collegiate and then obtained a Bachelor of Nursing from the University of Manitoba in 1990. I began and ended my career in oncology on D6, the blood-and-marrow-transplantation unit at the Health Sciences Centre. It was a challenging, yet rewarding profession. I met and shared the experience with dedicated, fun, caring people. Annelies and Isabel, you have been my joy. You both are beautiful, smart and kind. I loved spending time with you, travelling, giggling, enjoying nature, eating sweets and drinking tea, and watching you grow. 'Twas heaven here with you. I'm so sorry that I will not be here physically with you. Just look for my star it will be there day and night. Michael, you have always been my rock, with your sense of humour and love. We were lucky enough to travel to some spectacular places and see plenty of nature in Manitoba. Thank you for sharing that with me, as well as the Saturday crosswords at Sals, walks at Oak Hammock and garage sales. Lean hard into joy. Much thanks to my loving Koch-Schulte family: Rose-Marie, Joe, Rolf, Louise, Joe Jr. and Abby. Also to happy, yappy Pepper, Kinderschule friends, Lynn, Tracy and Werner, cousins Duncan and Suzanne (Amelie and Seth) and the staff at Forest Park and Avery schools. Thanks as well to the staff at CancerCare Manitoba, the members of the Younger and Wiser Support Group led by Jill Taylor-Brown, the art-therapy program and my listener Bunty Anderson. Thank you, beloved relatives Wally and Jean, Lorna, Morris and Joyce, Dorothy, Ann and Henry, Betty and Glorie, Cyndy and Bill, Leslie and Pierre, Tom and Cheryl, Cheryl and Jamie, Ross, Arlie and Grant. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation to CancerCare Manitoba's art-therapy program. A service will be held at Neil Bardal Funeral Centre during the Louis Riel Day weekend. Neil Bardal Funeral Centre Inc. (204) 949-2200 neilbardal.com
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As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Dec 15, 2014
Condolences & Memories (25 entries)
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Diane was a beautiful childhood friend. In the early days my family had much to do with Diane, Pam as well as Mr. & Mrs. Hasker, such a wonderful family. Cancer is a horrible disease. - Posted by: Corinne Rudnicki-Smith (friend at church/brownies/guides ) on: Dec 28, 2014
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Such very sad news. I have many fond memories of “Fish” (as I called my talented schoolmate in recognition of her prowess in the pool), and even in adulthood when our paths would cross (always memorably if regrettably infrequently), her joie de vivre left a lasting impression. No doubt her spirit (and the echo of that inimitable laugh) will live on, and will hopefully carry her family through this difficult time. My sincerest condolences to all who were close to this unique and wonderful person. - Posted by: Andrea Paci (schoolmate) on: Dec 19, 2014
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My son Aidan and Annelies brought our families together and I thank the stars every day for that. Diane and I sang together on many occasions over the last few years. The first duet we had ever did was "For Good" from Wicked. I think this lyric says it all... IT WELL MAY BE THAT WE WILL NEVER MEET AGAIN IN THIS LIFETIME SO LET ME SAY BEFORE WE PART SO MUCH OF ME IS MADE OF WHAT I LEARNED FROM YOU YOU'LL BE WITH ME LIKE A HANDPRINT ON MY HEART AND NOW WHATEVER WAY OUR STORIES END I KNOW YOU HAVE RE-WRITTEN MINE BY BEING MY FRIEND... You will be forever in my heart. - Posted by: Tracy Goltsman (Close Friend) on: Dec 18, 2014
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I would like to add my condolences to Diane's family. I lived at the end of Cabot Cres and often walked to school with Diane, attended the same classes and parties. I admired Diane's self confidence and impressive swimming talent. She was always a positive person with a great giggle. And I will forever associate Supertramp's album Breakfast in America with her. I knew the family in my youth so it is heart breaking that three wonderful women in the same family have not survived this disease. - Posted by: Wendy Rinella (School friend, neighbour) on: Dec 17, 2014
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I am truly sorry to hear of Diane's passing. I grew up in the same neighborhood as Diane and went to school with her. I remember her as a very happy person. I have fond memories of her in school. - Posted by: cindy cobb (old school mate) on: Dec 17, 2014
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I am struck by the loss of Diane. She was always a unique gem. I grew up with her in school. She was strong, vivacious and full of life. So, so sad she is gone. Condolences to her family. - Posted by: Cheryl Witter (old school mate ) on: Dec 16, 2014
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Tears came to eyes as I read this. I, too, knew Diane as a Hasker and remember her spirited nature with great fondness. I doubt I could ever write my own obituary, especially one as wonderful as this. Good night, good friend. - Posted by: Michelle Zacharias (Schoolmate) on: Dec 16, 2014
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We are were at a party 25 years ago and Diane told me, 'Sean, you're a terrible dancer. Bend your knees!' Blunt but honest. My kind of girl. Her tribute brought tears to my eyes. - Posted by: Sean Muir (Old swimming friend) on: Dec 16, 2014
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To Diane's Family I extend my condolences. I will forever remember Diane with wild and vibrant red hair and a joyous laugh! - Posted by: Loraine Agnew (Co worker D6) on: Dec 16, 2014
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I am very saddened to see this notice. Diane was easy to recognize in the photo, but for her hair color she has not changed and still has the same smile I used to see in high school. We were not close friends, but we were friends. Some people you don't forget and Diane 'Hasker' is one of them. A very nice girl who, it seems grew into a remarkable woman. Deepest sympathy to her husband and daughters, family and friends. - Posted by: Karla Elcock (School Mate) on: Dec 16, 2014
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An amazing friend and colleague. I enjoyed working with, teaching and learning from you. Sharing the office was fun too. I very much appreciated the care you and Michael put into organizing my retirement tea and will never forget it and all our times together. God speed. My sincere condolences to Michael and the girls. - Posted by: Marilyn Bruce (Friend and colleague) on: Dec 15, 2014
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I met Diane in 2006 when we both joined a support through Cancercare. We had many great conversations, comparing stories and she was always an inspiration to me. We had lost touch in the last few years, but I always will remember our time together as very special. My sincere sympathies to the family. - Posted by: Laura Burns (Friend) on: Dec 15, 2014
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Oh how I wish you could have stayed, my dear friend. You brought joy to the world wherever you were and you lived it all with such energy - from the kitchen to the Lake to friendships near and far. You gave yourself fully to the world and we love you for every minute we had together. Michael, Annelies, Isabel, my heart is with you. Love, Linda - Posted by: Linda Quattrin (Friend) on: Dec 15, 2014
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Prayers and thoughts are with the Koch-Schulte family. St. Anne's Petersfield. - Posted by: Kathy and Bill Foster (friend) on: Dec 15, 2014
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Diane you were always larger than life in your spirit and energy. I still can hear your laugh and see your smile. My deepest sympathy to you Mike and Annelies and Isabel. Even though I never met you I wish you peace and Love always... - Posted by: Tracy Kostuik (Friend- U of M Nursing classmate) on: Dec 15, 2014
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Dear Mike, Annelies and Isabel, I am so sorry for your loss. I had the privilege of working with Diane on D6 and look back at that time with fond memories. She was right that laugh was unique and is already missed. Hugs Tammy - Posted by: Tammy Poole (friend and nursing colleague) on: Dec 15, 2014
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Michael, Annelies and Isabel, our deepest condolences go out to you. So sorry to learn of Diane's passing. She was an AMAZING woman and such an inspiration! Her zest for life was contagious, and it never seized to amaze me how she would always find the silver lining in every cloud. We first met your family when Isabel and Brooke were very little, out on the soccer field, and have grown closer over the years. Our hearts ache for you all. Sincerely, Shari, Brant & Brookie. - Posted by: Shari, Brant & Brooke Bishop (Friends through our children) on: Dec 15, 2014
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We are very sorry for your loss. Diane was always pleasant to talk to, always smiling. Hugs from Ontario to Michael, Annelies and Isabel. - Posted by: Jacqueline and Walter van Arragon (Cousin) on: Dec 15, 2014
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So sorry to be reading this. Condolences. - Posted by: Jeff Kirkpatrick () on: Dec 15, 2014
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Extending deepest sympathy to the Koch-Schulte family on Diane's passing. It's been quite a journey and I'm so very sad to see she passed away. Diane was a long time volunteer with the Canadian Cancer Society's annual April door to door campaign - she will be missed. Please know our thoughts are with you at this sad time. Friends at the Cancer Society - Posted by: Lynda Ruban (staff at the Canadian Cancer Society) on: Dec 15, 2014
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Dearest Diane, It is so difficult to say goodbye to you. Since we met in 1st year of Nursing School at U of M in 1986, we have very closely accompanied one another as we encountered life's joys, sorrows, love and loss. I have always admired you. You have marked my life with your kindness, generosity, and your focus on living a true and meaningful life. Your devotion to your lovely daughters Isabel & Annelies and to your husband Michael was simply beautiful. You had many reasons to put up a fight against Cancer. We all do. Love, Lynn - Posted by: Lynn Carriere (Close friend for almost 30 years) on: Dec 15, 2014
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Diane, I will always cherish the fond memories I have of you. I feel so lucky to have known you and your sister Pamela. You have touched my heart in so many ways and will be greatly missed. My sincere condolences to your family. - Posted by: Pam McLeod (Friend) on: Dec 15, 2014
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I am very saddened to have read this beautiful story of Diane's life. It is always so hard to hear about an old friend passing at such a young age. Cabot Crescent was such a great place to grow up (kiddy club). I had the opportunity to grow up with both Pam and Diane. - Posted by: Andrew MacIver (Old Friend and Member of the Cabot Group) on: Dec 15, 2014
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Dear Mike, Annelies and Isabel..... Words cannot express our sorrow at Diane's passing. Diane was a great person to know and will be dearly missed. - Posted by: Mladen, Enya and Biljana Bukvic (Friends) on: Dec 15, 2014
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Dearest Diane... as we saw you struggle we also witnessed your courage. You have been an inspiration and a most beautiful example of making the most of each and every day. We will miss you in our alto section. We will continue to sing with and for you... and we will never forget you. Thank you dear friend for your legacy of love. - Posted by: Nancy McAvoy Gajdosik (friend... and choir colleague ) on: Dec 15, 2014
