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JEFFREY LYNN CROTHERS

Born: Feb 19, 1958

Date of Passing: Oct 16, 2015

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JEFFREY LYNN CROTHERS February 19, 1958 - October 16, 2015 It is with sad hearts that we announce the tragic passing of our dear father, grandfather, godfather, uncle and friend on Friday, October 16, 2015. Jeff was predeceased by his father Fred (1998), his mother Frances (2013), to whom Jeff referred to as "The sunshine of his life" and his godson Myles Marchenko (2009). Jeff will be deeply missed by his special friend Sandy; daughters, Beverley (Chris), Samantha (Russell); grandsons, Dean and Desmond, along with his ex-wife and dear friend Shirley. Also left to cherish his memory are Jeff's close friends that he made throughout his life who thought of him as family, as well as his family pets Scratch and Nico. Jeff had recently retired from the Canada Revenue Agency with over 35 years of loyal and dedicated service, he also ran his own business, Doggie Doo. Jeff had a passion for both cars and music and was always in his driveway wrenching on his classic 67 Dodge Dart and keeping up to date with the music scene. He also loved his Winnipeg Blue Bombers and was a season ticket holder for many years. But by far Jeff's most endearing quality was the love he possessed for his family and friends. Jeff always found a reason and a way to celebrate with friends whether it be a party, night of cards, lunch date or a concert. He had a special gift of being able to talk with people of all ages and was known to many of his friend's children as "Uncle Jeff." Although Jeff was taken from us all far too early we can take comfort in knowing that he is reunited with the first love of his lifehis Mom. In keeping with Jeff's wishes, cremation has taken place and a celebration of his life will be held on Saturday, October 24, 2015 from 11:00 a.m. to 2:00 p.m. at the Rossmere Golf and Country Club, 925 Watt Street. In lieu of flowers, donations in Jeff's memory may be made to a no kill animal shelter of your choice. "Rest in peace Captain Zap." The Coutu Family in care of arrangements: E.J. COUTU & CO. FUNERAL DIRECTORS 680 Archibald Street 204-253-5086

As published in Winnipeg Free Press on Oct 23, 2015

Condolences & Memories (26 entries)

  • I'm so sorry to hear of the passing of Jeff. Jeff was a childhood friend growing up in St.Vital. He was always smiling and always had an ear for you. We used to get together at Fred's place and we would start jamming together, it was Eddie, myself and Jeff. Jeff would be belting out the rock songs of our youth. I'm in shock as this has hit me hard hearing this months later. I haven't seen Jeff in years, you have been in my thoughts bud. We have lost someone special... - Posted by: Shane Ferguson (Friend) on: Apr 16, 2016

  • Jeff, for all who knew him, was so full of life... his job I think, was to spread laughter and kindness. He, on more than one occasion, had me in tears begging him to stop because my stomach hurt so much from laughing... the voices he could do were amazing... my personal favorite was Popeye... oh that chuckle... it would send me off in peals of laughter... this is what I will miss the most - so much fun we had over these last 30 - 40 years will leave me with the most amazing memories. This is his legacy to the world, an example of what a good man is, never a mean word to anyone has he spoken and always a smile on his face for all his friends... the forever ones and the new ones. The last time we were together he sang Born to be Wild for me... and everyone else lucky enough to be sharing the evening with us... that was his song... thank you for taking us in you love embrace. A circle is round, it has no end. That is how long I will be your friend. We miss you so much. - Posted by: Esther & James Wai (Best friends for life) on: Nov 06, 2015

  • Our family met him about 7 years ago. When he started clean up for our Jake and George. We will him. Our prayers and thoughts are with his family. If there is anything we can do just call. Jeff will be sadly missed by everyone. - Posted by: Kathy Hooper ( Client) on: Nov 04, 2015

  • My husband Eddy Stoesz introduced me to Jeff in 1978.and was Eddy's Best Man in 1981 when Eddy and I married.To all of Jeff's friends and family our deepest condolences.Jeff and Eddy will be greatly missed. Much love pearl and Connor. - Posted by: Pearl Kavanagh-Stoesz (friend) on: Oct 28, 2015

  • OMG-so shocked and deeply saddened to hear of Jeff's tragic passing. We've been clients of his "Doggie Doo" business for well over 15 years. Jeff was such an affable and truly unique individual. We chatted often about anything from art, music,cars ( of course) and even quirky movies ( Hot Tub Time Machine !!!!). We will miss him like crazy. Wednesdays will never be the same. - Posted by: Valerie and Howard Raber, Napoleon, Spartacus and Mowgli (Friend and Client,405 Kelvin Boulevard) on: Oct 27, 2015

  • So sorry to hear of the passing of a dear old friend. I remember partying with U Whut back in the 80s and Jeff's long flowing locks, going to see Robert Plant, and many other get togethers. You will be dearly missed, Captain Zapp! Keep on Rockin' until we meet again, my friend. - Posted by: Andrea Guss (Friend) on: Oct 27, 2015

  • I was fortunate to be friends with Jeff and become very close over the last year. We shared the same love of for Phantom of the Paradise, classic rock and classic cars. Going to concerts and car shows with him was so much fun:). Recently we went to the Fabulous 50s car show to meet up with him, Gerhard and I chuckled about how excited that his car was in show. He was so enthusiastic when telling Gerhard all about it. Jeff talked about the love he had for his family, always talking about Bev and Sam. He was so excited to go to his grandsons birthday party a couple of weeks ago. Sandy, I know you feel lost without your Jeff. He adored you and was so admiring to hear when he spoke of you and all the new summer places he wanted to take you. Jeff my friend, you have touched the lives of so many You loved all and were loved by all. We can all find comfort in knowing you are embraced by the rays of your sunshine. I am so grateful for our friendship! Rest in peace my friend , love Yvonne and Gerhard - Posted by: Yvonne St. Laurent (Friend) on: Oct 26, 2015

  • First met Jeff approximately 8 yrs.ago; of him being a fan of a classic rock group I was once in. He admired my drumming style. I am shocked over the news. Although only knowing him briefly. His disappointment of me giving up the band scene; touched me deeply. Irony has a way of happiness & sadness here. Because after 7 yrs. of not being in a group. By happenstance new neighbors I noticed walking down the lane carrying guitar cases. A chat pursued now drumming with a Christian rock group. Husband & wife & me. I just thought of Jeff a mere 2 wks. ago. I thought I'd tell my sister Erica who worked with him; to tell Jeff about me being re-active again. Wow Jeff fan & friend. You would've loved my additional musical passionate approach. So so sorry to hear you left us in your best innings of life.....Rest With Peace Jeff Rest With Peace.............................. - Posted by: Paul Andree (Brief acquaintance) on: Oct 25, 2015

  • As a young girl I remember Jeff..with his long flowing locks and that trademark stache! He was playing in a band with my brother Tim and I spent many a night as a "You Whut?!" groopie grooving to the the tunes. " Born to be Wild" comes fondly to mind. So sad to hear he's gone. - Posted by: Cynthia Lawrence (Friend) on: Oct 25, 2015

  • Missed you when you retired, but I was happy for you. We both love old Mopars, hope you are smiling from heaven when I finally restore my old Challenger. Thank you for making work more fun, you could always put someone in a good mood, no matter how bad they felt. Rest in peace, Jeff. - Posted by: Kevin Stacey (Former co-worker) on: Oct 25, 2015

  • I had the privilege of working with Jeff back in the 80's at the Tax Centre. He always had a smile and a big heart. So sorry to hear of his tragic passing. My condolences and prayers go out to his family and friends. - Posted by: Susan K (former co-worker ) on: Oct 24, 2015

  • So sad. I met Jeff way back at the Tax Centre in the early 80s when we worked together. Although I haven't seen Jeff for many years I always remember him as a happy, fun person who always had time for you. - Posted by: Maria Pikta (Friend & Colleague) on: Oct 24, 2015

  • Zap-You will be sorely missed. You have been such a good and supportive friend before after and since Myles' passing. I will miss seeing and catching up with you every February 17th at Earls. Having been friends for almost 40 years I will miss the LOVE You shared with everyone you met. Your love for life, love for music and animals was shared with everyone you came in contact with. You, your Mom and Myles will continue to party on Dude! Such a sad time. - Posted by: Paula Brett (mother of his godson Myles ) on: Oct 24, 2015

  • U will be missed, hugs to Shirley and Bev and Sam. - Posted by: Karen Dueck (Niece in law) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • Jeff, we had just met a short while ago. You welcomed us to the street and gave us a sense of comfort in knowing we had a great new neighbour! Thank you for welcoming us and making us feel at home in the new neighbourhood, your conversations will be missed! Condolences to Jeff's family and friends. - Posted by: Melissa (New neighbour ) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • My Condolences to Sandy and his children, My heart is just broken to think of you not here. So many fun times since the early 80's. Too many to mention, so many stories. There is some comfort in knowing that you are with your mother again, and our friend Ken. Your friend forever, Peace Out! Leather Linda - Posted by: Linda D (Friend) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • Some news hits you like a clap of thunder and Jeff, your passing and the tragic circumstances, struck us... as it did all your friends and family, as such when the news broke. Our hearts are broken... As others have mentioned, we could go a year without meeting, then it was the best times when we saw each other again - whether camping, at a friend's bonfire, at a Bomber game or Grey Cup party. We'll miss your ever-present smile, your hugs, your stories, your love for your family and friends. Pat will miss talking/arguing with you endlessly about music and staying up all night at our house listening to and watching that music. You'll always be our favourite party leprechaun and no one will ever replace your perfect Popeye cackle. Say Hi to Ken for us and when you teach them (up there) how to make that pineapple tequila that only you could master, let us know, so we can all toast together. Love you, buddy... - Posted by: Pat & Diane Cannon (Friends) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • Oh my sweet Jeff. You will be so missed. You are one of the kindest, giving people I ever met. I am so blessed that I had you for a friend. Your, smile, your laugh, your twinkle in your eyes. I enjoyed our camping adventures, the parties, the card games, but most of all I will cherish our moment singing "I got You BABE". You will always be my "SUNNY", I know your mom was there to take you in her arms. Rest In Piece my dear friend. hugs and kisses - Posted by: Joy Gross (Friend) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • Jeff, we were so blessed to call you our good friend. We will cherish the times we spent with you as we always did. You had such a great outlook on life and the memories we shared will never be forgotten. Rest in Peace my friend...back in your mothers arms xoxo Love Yvonne and Gerhard. Sincere condolences to Sandy , Shirley and the girls and grandkids. - Posted by: Yvonne St. Laurent and Gerhard Rademacher (friends) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • Jeff............ You will always be in our hearts .................such a warm smile , always happy,...............interesting stories..............always jolly.......... just such a pleasure to be with us................. we will miss you sooo much, but we do have lots of great memories of you...........just a great guy!! You know, of course. u will still be at our gatherings (in spirit) and will miss you so much,Jeff - Posted by: Carole Lott (Sandra's Mom) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • My Friend! What good times we had in the 80's! We would not see each other for years and then as soon as we touched base it was like we just seen each other yesterday. You were one of the kindest people I knew. My heart is broke and I send my warmest thoughts and prayers to his family and friends. You will truly be missed! Gwendy - Posted by: Gwendy McFee (Friend) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • My condolences to Captain Zap's family and friends. I met Captain Zap when I was maybe 2 years old. I have so many wonderful memories of Zap. He was like an Uncle to me he was my father, Ken Dammerman's very good friend for many years and he actually gave Jeff the name Captain Zap. Zap is the kindest sole I have ever met and I strive to emulate the kind, gentle, fun good spirited person he was. Zap was a huge help when my father passed last fall, he helped me cope with the loss and spent some gruelling days with me and my fiancĂ© cleaning out my fathers garage. I cannot express how much that meant to me. I would also like to mention when my father was in hospital Zap helped me every day with my dads dog Arlee so I could be with my father for his last days. I am so grateful to have known Zap as he was such a very special person. Zap will hold a special place in my heart. There is no doubt Zap, His mother and ken are having a party up there and looking down on us with all the love in the world. Peace, Love and Harmony Charity Hansen - Posted by: Charity (Friend) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • I remember meeting Jeff with his long ponytail 35 years ago when I started at the TC. Lots of good conversations and laughs over the years. Jeff you will be missed but never forgotten. RIP. - Posted by: Tammy Bertrand-Charles (Friend and colleague ) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • From my family to yours, we wish for you peace and condolence. Jeff is missed and will forever be in our hearts, where he will flourish and thrive. The best tribute we or anyone can give to him is to pass along the same love, kindness and laughter to our children, family and friends that he gave so freely over the years. Never forget that he is e mailing down on us and will watch over us for the rest of our lives. Until we meet again my friend.... - Posted by: Jason Lee (Friend) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • Wow! So shocked and heartbroken to hear of Jeff's sudden and tragic passing!! I do know that he was an Angel on earth and is now an angel in Heaven! I will always miss you my friend!! You will always be in my heart and in my memories!! RIP Jeff!! - Posted by: Anita Dame (Lifelong Friend) on: Oct 23, 2015

  • I worked with Jeff starting at the little building on ferry Road. He was in the warehouse a friend and I in a part of it. We had some good parties and a lot of fun times. I will fondly remember Captain Zap. - Posted by: Celeste (Friend from CRA) on: Oct 23, 2015

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