SHIRLEY S. CHAITRAM

Condolences & Memories (6 entries)

• Aunty Shirley, It saddens me to read that you have passed. I came to Google to look for a contact to offer condolences on the passing of Uncle Roy...only to see YOUR Obituary! Debbie, Francine and Kris, please accept the condolences of both your parents. We always got a chance to speak with both Mom and Dad, when Dad would call us to "ketch-up". Every month there was a phone call. My Father, Franklyn Chiterman (RIP) loved both of you whenever you all visited us. Aunty Shirley, may you rest in the arms of the Lord...and my little joke is that Uncle Roy really could not leave you alone too long, he has come to join you now. May you both rest in peace. From your family in Tobago, Cheryl, Roger and Weizmin Chiterman. - Posted by: Weizmin Chiterman (Cousin from Tobago (Trinidad and Tobago)) on: Sep 03, 2025

• Seems like only yesterday Shirley & I were gallivanting around Winnipeg with the world in the palm of our hands. We were both young and free spirit and never missed a party. We both moved to Winnipeg around the same time. In saying that, Shirley had the serious side of her, she had a very young family and they always took precedence. She surrounded her family with the utmost attention, love, laughter and warmth. Her cooking was incomparable and I sure learnt to make some delicious dishes from her. My special memory of Shirley was when she came to Vancouver to stay with me for a while. We spontaneously jumped in the car and decided we were going to visit the space needle in Seattle USA, no maps and no planning. We got lost a couple of times and did shut down for gas only once. It was the true meaning of a girls trip out! Shirley, I will always remember you for your love, laughter & kindness. MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN PEACE. My deepest Condolences to Roy, Debbie & family, Francine & family and Chris & family Irma. - Posted by: Irma Mungal (Friend) on: Mar 15, 2025

• I first memories of Aunty Shirley was in San Fernando, Trinidad. Our family (her sister Patsy) returned from England - our lives overlapped at this time (69 - 70) before she flew off to Canada. I remembered she sewed, because 5 year old me, was messing around with her sewing machine and ran the needle over my thumb, thread and all. 5 year old me also danced around in her wedding tiara and veil singing along to her brother, Stanley's Sound of Music vinyl. Shirley also intervened in my life when I was 16yr and was mid-mental breakdown. I didn't have to tell her anything, she recognised I was in trouble and bought me a ticket to Winnipeg. Now one of my best adventures - flying to Toronto and catching a connecting flight all by myself (no unaccompanied minor stuff). Once I did this, I realised I could do anything on my own. 2 - 3 of the best months ever - including taking a Greyhound to Prince Albert with Debbie to visit my Aunt Kay from the other side of my family. Shirley held an extra special place in my heart from then on. Because of the above; a simple statement she told my mom on her birthday - she was sitting by the phone waiting for others to call her; mobilised my mom and me. We found out she had no access to a tablet to use Messenger to video chat with, not only Stanley and my mom in Trinidad, but also Franklin (another brother) and Jill in Toronto. Being isolated at any time is not great. I video chat to my mom every single night and have for years. Thankfully Amazon Canada worked from England and we bought her a tablet & case. It was great, I got to speak to Shirley quite a few times ...especially at 11.30 at night because she forgot the time difference 😆 🤣. It wasn't anything special, just helping when I could, like she did for me. The joy of being able to chat anytime brought happiness to my mom, Stanley & Franklin too. Now the family could have long joint conference calls at Christmas, Easter, etc. Shirley also told me she was able to chat with her out of town family too, so it was all good. It is the small things that count. My mom spoke to Shirley just a few days before her unexpected death. This event has really shaken us all up. Plans for Shirley to go to Trinidad and other random things you believe you will have time tomorrow to deal with, suddenly vanish. The old adage that 'life turns on a dime' is scarily true. I can only tell how my Aunt Shirley impacted my life. Condolences to everyone else who knew, met & loved this amazing woman. Maybe also give a call or a hug to all your loved ones now, incase there is no next day, next week. Love & sincerest best wishes to all, from across the pond. Lisa & family. ***Elbows UP!*** - Posted by: Lisa (Khan) Body (Niece) on: Mar 14, 2025

• I knew her from Iere High School in Siparia. She was ina class a year ahead of me. In those days the students were only about 100 and every one knew one another. I was born in Debe and her family was from there also. Her brother had taught me at Ptimary School in Siparia. I have to Winnipeg a few times and have a lot of close relatives there. My deepest condolences to her husband and all her children. May your soul rest in Peace. - Posted by: Lincoln Bhola (High School Acquaintance) on: Mar 13, 2025

• In Loving Memory of Aunty Shirley It is with deep sadness that I recieved the news of the passing of our beloved Aunty Shirley. I remember her when I was a youngster spending holidays at her home. She was a woman of kindness, warmth, and unwavering love, touching the hearts of everyone who had the privilege of knowing her. Aunty Shirley will always be remembered for her generosity, wisdom, and the joy she brought to those around her. Whether through her comforting words, infectious laughter, or the countless ways she showed her love, she left a lasting impact on her family, friends, and community. Though our hearts are heavy, we take comfort in the beautiful memories she leaves behind. Her spirit will live on in the lives she touched, and she will never be forgotten. Rest in peace, dear Aunty Shirley. You will be missed beyond words, but your love and legacy will remain with us always. - Posted by: Trevor Teemul (Nephew) on: Mar 12, 2025

• She was my younger sister and although far apart we were always very close in our relationship with each other. She spoke with me on my birthday which was on the 20th February so it was a great shock to hear about her death. Rest in Peace little sister and know that all your trials and tribulations are over now. May you find Peace in the arms of the Lord. Goodbye dear SIS. - Posted by: Christine. Khan (sister) on: Mar 09, 2025